4 tough things you have to do to win at life

We enter this world fresh and knowing nothing of what’s to come. Depending on your advantages or disadvantages you had as a child doesn’t mean you will be a champion at life.To win at life takes 4 things. You don’t have to be perfect or know everything. Before I get into those there are some prerequisites. We are all pillars in the foundation the world, our community to build society. We all have a purpose that we must find. If you are miserable or keep having bad luck, chances are you are far from your purpose, along with bad decisions and behaviors. Living your purpose gives you life and puts you on the road to success.If you found your purpose, your passion the hard work begins. Congratulations!You can’t make excuses for what you do — and you can’t avoid working incredibly hard. You have a duty to be the best you, so that you can be an inspiration and a model to others. Whether you are on the journey of discovering your purpose or living it remember these 4 Things

1) You have to think for yourself.

Everyone has an opinion and everyone company is trying to sell you something.

Just because someone else tells you that you “should” be doing something doesn’t mean that it’s best to automatically run to do it.

It’s not hard to see the byproducts of group think everywhere from what to wear or what’s cool. Listen to those that you trust and have your best interest at heart, but think for yourself, you get further that way.

2) Most of the time it won’t work.

What worked for someone else success doesn’t mean it will work for you. In all of our journey’s we have to figure it out with wins and losses. Accept the ying yang of life and you will get through life much easier. You can acknowledge the failure at that time not be a failure.

You’re different from everyone else in thousands of complex but distinct ways. You have different skills, goals, passions, strengths, and weaknesses. You reach the success in your life you will have some of the same ingredients of other but your recipe with be unique.

3) You’re you. They’re them.

We all are players in this game of life and we need to play our position. We need to practice and get better at our position. Master your position because it was giving to us at birth. When you try to play out of position you can get burned. We will rotate teammates and opponents through this game of life. Let them play their game and you play yours.

4) Try. Try. And try again.

Stop complaining and stop feeling down about what di

dn’t happened like it should. Start asking questions that will help you understand what went wrong and try again. Monitor your progress to observe what strides you are making. If you still haven’t reached that goal keep trying. Stay focused on what you are observing from your perspective by thinking for yourself. Learn from your mistakes and capitalize on opportunities, play your position. The more you try the more you learn, the more you gain. Never stop trying.

And one that you can get started on right now.

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